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CHEERS! by Fr. Bill -- November 1, 2009 |
Last weekend, October 24/25 I was in Toledo, Ohio for the wedding of my 3rd cousin, Mindy Gabel (her grandfather and I are first cousins). Mindy married Nick Valeri and they are now on their honeymoon in Jamaica. I have stayed close to all my cousins(1st, 2nd and 3rd) — many of whom live in Ohio. I was born in Toledo in northwestern Ohio, not too far from Detroit, Michigan. Besides being involved in all the details and celebrations of the wedding, I decided to spend some time going back to my roots since I spent seven years of my life in Ohio: 1944, 1945 and 1946 and then again in 1950, 1951, 1952 and 1953; the remaining 58 years I’ve lived in Las Vegas; of course, my seminary training took me to San Francisco, CA, Washington, D.C., Rome (Italy), Paris (France), London (England), Munich (Germany), Louvain (Belgium) and Nijmegen (the Netherlands). I visited houses, schools and churches in Toledo and had a few surprises along the way.Of the three houses I visited — one was no more, but has been replaced by a gas station! Of the three churches and schools I visited — two parishes (St. Agnes and St. Vincent de Paul) were closed and the third, St. Thomas Aquinas, has been clustered with two other parishes and renamed the Emmaus Cluster; all three schools were closed (St. Agnes, St. Vincent de Paul and St. Thomas Aquinas). So, it was an interesting visit, although a little sad to see parishes suppressed. I remember very little about those parishes since I was so very young when attending them and yet I felt a tinge of sadness that places where I worshipped and received my First Communion were no longer there. I can only imagine the heartache that many families feel when their local parish is shut down — a parish where families celebrated Baptisms, First Communions, Confirmations, Weddings and Funerals. The main reason that most of these parishes were closed is the change of the neighborhood; some had been ethnic parishes (Irish, Polish, German etc.); others changed from residential neighborhoods to commercial. The bottom line was that there simply were not enough people nor finances to keep the parish running. I think of that situation and realize what a different diocese we have: many new parishes being built: St. John Neumann in North Las Vegas, St. Francis of Assisi in Henderson, St. Anthony of Padua in the northwest and, of course, Holy Spirit in the southwest. And, these churches have to be built to seat anywhere from 1,200 to 2,000 persons: “mega”-churches. And, if there were more clergy and more money available, even more parishes would be started in this still-growing diocese. Let us thank God for our blessings! It’s good to be back home! Love, Fr. Bill | |